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What's in a Name?

Have you ever searched your own name on the Internet to see what would pop up?

I imagine it wouldn't surprise the people who know me that I have done this numerous times. When you write fiction, you tend to want to see what sort of public picture you're creating on the Internet.

But I've also run searches on my name to find other Michael Bursteins out there. I'm not sure why I've done this, although I always felt an odd sort of identification with the others who share my name. For example, I'm a fan of the Israeli actor and singer Mike Burstyn because we share a name. (Burstyn's original name was Michael Burstein; I believe he changed the spelling for his career, since it was easier to fit on a marquee.) I make a point of seeing Burstyn perform whenever I can.

Burstein is not a common name, and my father used to tell me that there was a time when the only Bursteins in the Manhattan phone book were our family. I tended to think that there weren't too many other Bursteins out there. But with the rise of the Internet, I've found many others.

Including other Michael Bursteins.

Why I am sharing this? Because today's New York Times has an interesting article on the topic of finding people with your own name: Names That Match Forge a Bond on the Internet by Stephanie Rosenbloom. I'm apparently not the only person who's done this. In fact, according to the article, a writer named Angela Shelton has just published a book about meeting 40 other women with her same name. The article also notes why we might feel an odd kinship with someone who shares our name – social psychologist Brett Pelham has done studies that show that our names, and the letters within them, are influential in our lives.

In my own experience, the most amusing incident involving a "Googleganger" happened when I got an email from the teenage daughter of another Michael Burstein. She had been searching for her father's name on the Internet, and was delighted to discover me. She emailed me and clearly wanted a reply, but I was concerned about the appropriateness of me, a total stranger, writing back.

So I tracked down her father's work number, and gave him a call.

"Hello, I'd like to speak with Michael Burstein please."

"Certainly. May I ask who's calling?"

"Michael Burstein."

It turned out that Burstein-the-other had given his daughter permission to contact me. And I found out that he had lived in the Bronx as a kid, but had later moved with his family to Brookline, where he attended the Maimonides School for a year.

The Times article also mentions how a student named Jon Lee would like to turn up first on a Google search, but how there are too many other Jon Lees he would have to beat. In my case, my websites are usually the first ones to turn up, probably because I've had a website for longer than any other Michael Burstein, and also because you're more likely to want to find me if you use my name. In the case of many of the other Michael Bursteins, they're lawyers, and I imagine you're more likely to want to find one of them if you were looking for a lawyer who specializes in their kind of work. I've also found a company CFO, a few executives, a scientist or two, and a dentist who share my name, which does get my science-fiction writer brain pondering if there's a story in all this.
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There aren't any others.

I am dopple-free. I did find two other Mollenas: one hosts a cooking show in a West African country. Which one exactly eludes my memory at present. The other worked for Giuliani while he was Mayor. I was so surprised and amused to know that there was another Mollena, I e-mailed her. She was not interested, surprised or delighted to find another Mollena, which I found somewhat lame. As of now there are 3 other Mollena in the US. Although I suspect it is actually only 2 others, as I believe one Mollena married and therefore changed her surname.

I faced no competition in Googling myself until a former lover's eponymous song recently gained some notoriety. For one brief moment if irritating effulgence the song written about me outstripped myself in the ratings.

Praise the Gods.

Re: There aren't any others.

Mollena is a way cool name. Had I been the other Mollena, I would have thought it cool that you got in touch.

To my knowledge, I have never run across the word "effulgence" before. Thanks for increasing my vocabulary! (Although it took me a while to parse the sentence...)

That woudl be my typonese.

The typing of the word "if" in the sentence that was parse-resistant is my error!

That is why it made little sense.

"OF" is the correct word. For want of an "o", the meaning was (almost) lost....


Peace

~Mo
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